My boys, who are 8 and 6 years old, did exactly the same thing. Although now we are living permanently in France, when we lived in England my husband only ever spoke to them in French, it was only when we moved here that he realized that all is hard work was not in vain, as now they are like all the other children around them, French!!
In my experience children seem to 'pigeon hole' people, i.e. they will only speak the necessary language when needed. We have French friends that speak English very well, but when my children see them they will automatically speak French to them, and visa versa, when we have English friends visit, they revert back to English children. It is only with me that they seem to mix the languages!!
I really believe that our children do not see English and French as two different languages, they just seem to accept that they can understand and speak both without making a big difference between them!!
I think what I am trying to say is that you must keep going, for your culture's sake and for your family's sake.
Do you have any other Polish people around you? you could set up coffee mornings where you only speak Polish, then will be able to realize how much your child actually knows!!!
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